Mental Health Support for adults, children and families

Dr Leanne Tomkins
Clinical Psychologist - Birmingham, Worcestershire, West Midlands & Online

Digital Wellbeing: Balancing Screen Time and Mental Health

Understanding how to maintain healthy digital habits is crucial for both adults’ and children’s mental wellbeing.

Understanding Digital Impact

Effects on Mental Health:

  • Sleep disruption
  • Anxiety and comparison
  • Attention changes
  • Social pressure
  • Information overload
  • Reality vs online life disconnect

Signs of Unhealthy Digital Habits

Watch for:

  • Difficulty disconnecting
  • Anxiety when separated from devices
  • Decreased face-to-face interaction
  • Sleep problems
  • Mood changes
  • Reduced physical activity
  • Comparison-based distress

Creating Healthy Boundaries

Digital-Free Zones:

  • Bedrooms at night
  • Meal times
  • Family activities
  • First hour after waking
  • Last hour before sleep
  • Quality time with others

Managing Social Media

Healthy Practices:

  • Regular digital detoxes
  • Curating positive feeds
  • Setting time limits
  • Unfollowing triggering content
  • Being selective about connections
  • Questioning comparison thoughts

Supporting Children’s Digital Health

Key Strategies:

  • Age-appropriate limits
  • Open conversations
  • Shared activities
  • Digital literacy education
  • Online safety awareness
  • Balanced activities

Building Digital Resilience

Essential Skills:

  • Critical thinking online
  • Understanding digital footprints
  • Managing online relationships
  • Recognising fake news
  • Protecting privacy
  • Setting boundaries

Screen-Free Activities

Encourage:

  • Outdoor play
  • Creative projects
  • Physical exercise
  • Face-to-face socialising
  • Reading physical books
  • Mindfulness practices

Creating a Digital Wellness Plan

Include:

  • Screen-free times
  • Alternative activities
  • Family agreements
  • Device storage
  • Regular reviews
  • Flexibility for special occasions

When to Seek Support

Consider Help If:

  • Digital use affects daily life
  • Anxiety about disconnecting
  • Social isolation increases
  • Sleep is consistently disrupted
  • Mood depends on online validation
  • Compulsive checking occurs

Recommended Reading

  1. “Digital Minimalism” by Cal Newport
  2. “The Tech-Wise Family” by Andy Crouch
  3. “How to Break Up with Your Phone” by Catherine Price

Remember: Technology should enhance our lives, not control them. Small changes in digital habits can lead to significant improvements in mental wellbeing.

Finding the Right Support

Taking the first step towards therapy is significant. Whether you’re seeking support for yourself, your child, or your family, I understand how important it is to find the right fit.

I offer a free initial telephone consultation to:

  • Discuss your current challenges
  • Answer your questions about therapy
  • Consider whether face-to-face or online sessions would work best
  • Explore how we might work together

Leanne Tomkins is a HCPC Registered Clinical Psychologist Practising in Bromsgrove, Birmingham, Worcestershire and online working with adults and children.

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